FACT – Research proves that dogs have very limited episodic memory, but very strong associative memory. But what does this mean for their human companions? Simply put, dogs may not remember events beyond a few seconds or minutes. This is why trying to discipline or reward a dog much after an episode proves completely futile. However, dogs use their senses to start associating feelings with the people that they have shared positive or negative experiences with.

For instance, if a dog smells a particular scent on a pleasurable hike repeatedly, he will come to associate that scent with positivity. Similarly, the sound of an object being hit on the floor may scare a dog by association of the pain the sound may have accompanied if he was hit earlier. This leads us to conclude that regardless of the experiences dogs have shared in puppyhood with previous owners, it is only their experiences and the associations they form with the current owner that will dictate their emotional connection with their people.
We have frequently witnessed abandoned and abused dogs respond with unconditional affection, trust and love to their new owners if the dogs are treated well. In fact, love, care and nurture transform the most timid, scared, or even aggressive dogs into perfect companions for their owners. Therefore, context is most important for all dogs, regardless of age, breed or gender. Dogs treated consistently with kindness, compassion and loving firmness will respond with discipline, affection and respect, regardless of the span of time spent with the owner.

There are strategies for building a strong bond with your dog, a crucial part of which is being a good owner who takes care of the dog’s physical and emotional needs. Speak softly, be respectful and gentle in the handling of your dog, and observe and recognise his/her desire at the time for attention, play, or rest.
Research shows that spending quality time with your dog in a variety of engaging activities such as training, walking, grooming and playing can create positive associations. If, however, you are dealing with a rescue animal who may have unpleasant associations due to an abusive past, you may need the assistance of a trainer to help you deal appropriately with situations, and to develop an individualized plan for your dog. The most important prerequisite is to make your dog feel safe and loved.